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Sunday, 4 March 2018

My culturally Muslim parents would kick me out (basically disown me) if I married a hijabi. Has anyone dealt with something similar?

Source: best friend told me my mother said this to him. She asked me where he was, they talked, he then told me. He’s trustworthy and this is par for the course for how she’s been acting towards me lately. Long story short I trust that she said this.

Honestly I feel like it wouldn’t be fair to my future wife if Allah wills to bless me with one. Why would I bring her into a family where so many people will look down on her? I’d rather her marry into a family that would be supportive. And how would our families get along?

I’m having stupid thoughts like maybe I should wait for my parents to die before I marry.

Nonetheless, I need to throw stupid thoughts aside and seek advice on how to deal with this. I should probably start nafil fasting inshaAllah. I make dua for a righteous wife that my parents will love with every single salah.

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