Salaam,
I am having a lot of trouble in life right now and need some clarification. To give some background, I have severe depression which I have a psychiatrist (muslim) for and I take medication for. I believe that this depression is a test for me, and that no matter what, something good will come out of it, whether it be in this life, or this test will get me into Jannah iA. Now, onto the major problem...
I was in a relationship with a potential spouse. She was amazing. But, my parents forced us to end the relationship because my parents did not like her. I don't want to go into too much detail and dwell on small things. My question is:
I do know that we have free will, and Allah gives us choices for what we can do. For example, my parents could've accepted this and simply disapproved on the sidelines like they had been doing before, but they decided to intervene. This girl is not coming back. She's made that clear. The fact that she is not coming back, does that mean she and I would have never been married? I know that if something is meant for you, nothing can avoid it from getting to you, and if something is not meant for you, then nothing can make it come to you. Maybe because my parents did this, this is a test for me, and I was never meant to be with her. My depression is making this a lot harder than it should be. So is it true that she and I would have ended some other way if my parents did not do this, or would I have been able to marry her?
Jazakallah khair
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