Alhamdulilah for having him in my life, I do work for him and get paid by him and he is very generous and willing to help me with anything I can ask him (rides since I don’t drive, basically anything I can ask him he will try to help me solve if he can masha’Allah may Allah reward him and protect him. Ameen)
However he does have another side I’m not sure about, he becomes very extreme with his temper when I just want to have some distance and keep something to myself and deal with something on my own and with the guidance of Allah, it’s like he won’t accept it and will lose his temper to the max, like today he kept insisting to take me somewhere to deal with something to do with my drivers license (his idea I didn’t even bring it up) and I told him when he picked me up in the morning that I didn’t have enough time to find my documents, and he kept yelling and and going to extremes that I’m soft and not firm and not serious about life and he got really in my face like he was almost barking loudly to intentionally make me very angry. He knows I’m quiet and shy and patient and he does this almost daily like it’s on purpose. I see him doing it to his wife who is also quiet and shy and will never admit that he’s in the wrong and that all of society has a disease of being way too soft but I feel like his extreme is over the top. I even asked him to just take me back home and he said no and he stopped in the middle of the road in traffic. I said that he can’t do that and just drive, so he just drove into the opposite lane in oncoming traffic just to...prove some kind of point that he was in control or something else I don’t know.
We later apologized to each other but I admit I was still a little freaked out. We saw someone else we knew and stopped prayed and talked with him at a shop. Asked me if I wanted to go home cause we were gonna be a while and I said no as I didn’t want to be in the car with him, and got a ride from the other brother we met since I was way more comfortable around him, my boss says that I am being deceiving and I’m wrong for not communicating him that I wanted to leave and go home, basically he wanted me to go ask him to take me home, and he was severly offended that I went with someone else, is this normal behavior? What should I do? He has done so much good for me but this is kind of a line for me, is there any guidance in the Qur’an or from a Hadith that can help me?
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