A couple days ago my fiance of 2 weeks was crying telling me that she had been abused by her supervisor for a year, me being naive believed her and told her to report it to HR and she did. The same day i recieved an email from an anonymous source saying that my fiance had been in a willing relationship with the guy before our engagement and they had attached pictures and texts. It broke my heart and tore me up inside. I told messaged my fiance we were done and messaged my parents saying to call it off.
Today my parents sat me down and told me that they had talked to an imam and he had told them to tell me to give her another chance. That we are only human and that we make mistakes. I wasnt mad about her having a relationship before getting engaged to me, i was mad she lied to me. I've been in a premarital relationship before and i realize that I'm no angel.
My parents went over to her house the day everyhing happened and they said the girl was bawling and she seemed genuinely sorry. Today my parents said her family is coming over to talk about whether we want to continue or not. My parents have asked me to make a decision. I'm extremely confused.
The texts i saw were pretty graphic and idk if they will ever leave my mind but i also want to follow the religious advice of my imam.
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